I’m trying hard to live by Cat Principles.
1- I am glorious above all things
2- Eat when hungry, sleep when sleepy, play when bored
3- Affection is given and received on my terms and only mine
4- Show displeasure clearly.
6- Demand the things you want. If they aren’t given, demand them again, but louder this time.
7- If you are touched when you don’t want to be, say so. If they continue to touch you, make them bleed.
This time last year I was unemployed, broke, and suicidal.
Today, I just got the keys to my first house.
Give it time.
Needed this today
when you hear people preach that it gets better, they aren’t joking. if it’s not better yet, it will be.
this post could literally be saving lives rn and that is why i love this website.
Once you get this you have to say 5 nice things about yourself publicly and then send it to 10 people.
I was tagged by xaddijayx. (I was actually tagged twice: as thelovelieus and as let-us-fandom-on; does that mean I should do 10 things?).
1. I’m a pretty decent writer/poet
2. I actually like my face
3. Fangirling/geeking out is nothing to be ashamed of
4. I don’t need make up to look pretty
5. I’m proud of myself for getting self-confidence (of a sort?) and for getting help
Nope nope nope nope I dislike this statement so much. Every “confident, driven, single woman” does NOT need someone to save her. Not everyone is “delicate, [and] fragile.” There is so much I could go on about in this statement, though.
Like, NOT every woman wants to be saved, or needs to be saved. People ARE quite capable of being independent, and confident, and driven, and not needing someone else to “save them.”